Being a "trash can" for other people problems sometimes is great, ‘couse i can learn from it… but sometimes it’s killing me… but the problem is, sometimes people can’t accept a refusal… they think i don’t care anymore with them… but it’s all wrong… may be they just came not in the right time or right place to share their problem with me…
Can you imagine when you feel down and hopping for a hug, just a hug, and someone came to you and hug you but… they did it not because you need it but they need it… they hug you and talked a lot to your ear about their problem and ask for your heart to feel sorry for what happen to them and after they finish… they leave you only with "thank you, i feel relief now… bye…"… You tried to have time to hear them and when you come to them just for a hug (it only took a mnt or less) they too busy to hug you… too busy to hug me…
All i want is just a minute to cooling down my heart with a hug… don’t have to hear my long and boring story… just a hug…
Or may be you have a friend that only made a warm contact with you when he/she need a friend to talked about his/her problem but they’re too busy to ask "how are you?"….
Believe me… i have some like this… how can they said i’m their best friend if they treat me like that??? it amaze me… and the most amazing part is… i always listen to their "sad story" and cheers them up…
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